Comment by internetman55
8 years ago
You're probably correct in your analysis, but in general I'm very wary of people who use self-help readings or techniques to analyze what everyone around them should be doing differently. I often run into people who seem to use these kinds of things as excuses to blame others and not take reasonable action on their own.
I don't walk around quoting self help all the time. My point is that before you give advice first take some time to understand the situation.