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Comment by erikerikson

6 years ago

"Could sshd have solved this?"

The phrasings listed seem to bring in the other person's choice and thereby create an oppositional/contrastive/comparative dynamic in to the statements.

I write this having struggled with this sort of thing.

It's hard to ask this way without coming off the way a teacher comes off to a student. If you're in a mentoring situation, this clearly works, but if you are a peer or a superior, it's dicey without perfect tone and body language.