Comment by gher-shyu3i

> I felt bad that I made him feel untrusted and stopped asking others to join.

Mistake #1

> Remembering that he had suggested I get milk and wine in our previous conversation, I also bought them. I don’t remember how much I drank.

Mistake #2.

Obviously we're not excusing the behavior of the guy. However, when will we learn that we should not mix genders this way, and especially the many times people have been bitten with alcohol. It's bizarre really. People want to have their cake and eat it. They play with fire then cry when they get burnt.