Comment by throway98752343
4 years ago
> If she doesn't know whether she genuinely consents to sex or not, then how is it morally acceptable to have sex with her?
Thing is, this is all a nonissue if your partner is enthusiastically into having sex with you.
So maybe more mutually fulfilling romps and less "well it was borderline but I did it anyway."
Yes consent isn't an issue when you assume your partner is consenting.
The problem is enthusiasm varies wildly. There are people I know whose sex would never be described as enthusiastic. There are lots of mild mannered anxious lovers out there. And I could see how it would be difficult for someone to judge the exact level of enthusiasm in a new lover.