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Comment by JohnDoerian2

5 years ago

The first part of your comment is based on what? It sounds more like a theory that you find in certain circles around the web, which are in my opinion mostly toxic.

And the 2nd part also needs a citation especially the villify part. While I am aware of the studies that you are referencing, they usually focus on sexual attraction. But relationships are not only based on sexual attraction.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201308/wh...

https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-d... - see the chart by age

https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-alway...

There are dozens of articles and several studies that confirm strong ageism in men preferences for relations. Few mention that single career women over 35 are the most unhappy people and a quarter are on antidepressants. From here to taking action against the relations of their age group men with younger women is a tiny logical step.

No idea what are the "certain circles around the web", but the overused word "toxic" gives me an idea: it it men in general? I saw the Gillette commercial.

> But relationships are not only based on sexual attraction.

Long time I hadn't that much of a laugh browsing HN.