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Comment by matheusmoreira

4 years ago

If it's your own device, I guess it's fine. I'm not sure I would consider my child's phone to be my device though. I certainly wouldn't have tolerated that sort of behavior from my parents when I was a kid myself.

Whether the device your child uses is yours, or theirs, that's up to you as the parent to decide.

> I certainly wouldn't have tolerated that sort of behavior from my parents when I was a kid myself.

Kids will be kids. I would have been the same way. I learned to pick a lock on the computer desk as a kid in order to play computer games after I was supposed to be in bed. The issues is the negative impact of tech is only growing, and it's harder and harder for kids to come out unscathed.

  • Phones are also how children are able to find out about things in a safe space.

    I am thankful every day that I grew up very technical and I was able to hide being gay from my parents but find the resources I needed online.

    If a phone is my only resource, this removes every ability for a child to find resources if they are curious about their sexuality.

    Or worse, if their parents are abusive this removes the ability completely for the child to safely get help.