Comment by Godel_unicode
3 years ago
Ah yes, the “I’m not an asshole I’m just independent” argument. Refusing to interrupt is respecting the other person enough to let them say what they think, and trusting them enough that they will grant you the same respect.
Which they probably won't, if they can prevent it, most of the time. People tend not to invite discussion for the purposes of challenging their positions.
Small-minded people, perhaps. Is it worth discussing things with them?
For what it’s worth, this is a common take from interrupty people which I have found not to be the case in the long run. I suspect there’s a significant observer effect.
Or perhaps there's a selection bias in the company kept. It's easy not to find cause to interrupt if there exists general agreement and temperament.
No it’s not worth discussing, that’s why you interrupt!