Comment by TheTaytay
2 years ago
My mom is similar, but I am not. I can stay on topic quite well and inability to do so is bothersome to me, so I see that and think, “I don’t have any of that.”
But when you said boring tasks are painful, and wanting someone to tap you on the shoulder when you get off task, I was nodding along vigorously. My best solution to this (so far) is to ensure my way of contributing meaningfully to things doesn’t require rote, boring work. :) I’ve considered setting up a camera over my shoulder just to give myself the feeling of being observed…
This hit HN two days after my comment, so for anyone else who stumbles across this thread, here is a link to another HN thread where people discuss “body doubling” and similar websites/services to help: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=33478562
Maybe the two of you can be that person for each other!