Comment by caeruleus
2 years ago
This is called Taarof and can be at times quite extreme: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taarof.
I have a good friend whose parents are from Persia/Iran. He told me about this culture after we knew each other for quite some time. Even though he has never lived there, he often still has a hard time not to do this, which has resulted in some funny (at least for his friends) or uncomfortable situations over time. Knowing this, many things I ascribed to his character alone suddenly made a bit more sense.
That sounds like my worst nightmare, haha. I don't run into too many folks from that culture, but this is really good to know about should I find myself talking to someone who follows a similar custom. Thanks for the link!
Thanks. I didn't know that it was a general thing and had a name. Fascinating.