I don't know about you, but I don't tend to have breakfast and lunch over Zoom.
While I did go out to lunch with coworkers more often while working in the office it was almost exclusively with direct teammates, and other groups I occasionally saw where also on the same team.
Now that I'm fully remote, I will typically do a few "hacking sessions" over Zoom every week. Its much easier and more comfortable than standing over their shoulder in tiny cubes we used to have.
That said, especially now that i am fully remote, I've been trying and mostly failing to get developers especially across teams to talk and collaborate more. But its not too suprising: I was recently in a call and I was introduced to another developer who I replied, "Yeah, I know you. I was in the cube next to you for 2 years and on your team for 6 months."
Remote creates some new challenges, but its a culture thing, not a technology thing.
You know, after I wrote this I got to thinking, "Why don't I have have more social Zoom calls?"
The answer is that I never was good at social things like inviting people to coffee.
But it doesn't help that we're taught to "protect" our time and avoid unnecessary calls and meetings. Presumably so we can write more lines of code, close more tickets, or earn more points like the story and other anecdotes here.
I think I may try something new in my calendar. Worst case I'll end up sitting in front of my computer alone with a block for the next hour and nothing to do but work on all those things I need to do anyways.
My thoughts were that neither of them should have been surprised by the rating. When a rating comes in substantially different than expected, it's usually because A) They aren't talking during the week B) The manager is weak and doesn't want to issue corrections when they meet C) The employee isn't asking "How am I doing?" during their meetings D) It's being directed from upper management for obscure reasons.
I don't know about you, but I don't tend to have breakfast and lunch over Zoom.
While I did go out to lunch with coworkers more often while working in the office it was almost exclusively with direct teammates, and other groups I occasionally saw where also on the same team.
Now that I'm fully remote, I will typically do a few "hacking sessions" over Zoom every week. Its much easier and more comfortable than standing over their shoulder in tiny cubes we used to have.
That said, especially now that i am fully remote, I've been trying and mostly failing to get developers especially across teams to talk and collaborate more. But its not too suprising: I was recently in a call and I was introduced to another developer who I replied, "Yeah, I know you. I was in the cube next to you for 2 years and on your team for 6 months."
Remote creates some new challenges, but its a culture thing, not a technology thing.
FWIW, I schedule coffee with colleagues over zoom.
It's not the same as having lunch together but it is enjoyable and useful.
You know, after I wrote this I got to thinking, "Why don't I have have more social Zoom calls?"
The answer is that I never was good at social things like inviting people to coffee.
But it doesn't help that we're taught to "protect" our time and avoid unnecessary calls and meetings. Presumably so we can write more lines of code, close more tickets, or earn more points like the story and other anecdotes here.
I think I may try something new in my calendar. Worst case I'll end up sitting in front of my computer alone with a block for the next hour and nothing to do but work on all those things I need to do anyways.
My thoughts were that neither of them should have been surprised by the rating. When a rating comes in substantially different than expected, it's usually because A) They aren't talking during the week B) The manager is weak and doesn't want to issue corrections when they meet C) The employee isn't asking "How am I doing?" during their meetings D) It's being directed from upper management for obscure reasons.