Comment by Fire-Dragon-DoL

I don't think that's fair toward me: the bad doctors never told me "do your research, form your opinion". They were always clear cut, they looked up on us for sleeping with our children and they "checked" the breastfeeding checkmark at the hospital even if my wife lamented pain during it and turned out my daughter had a really bad lip/tongue tie that took a month to be solved (with surgery). Notice that medical personnel even told her "you have to endure it, it's normal", as her breasts were cracking and she couldn't breastfeed anymore (had to pump).

I explicitly said, do your research at the end of the message.

P. S. The book might have been one of the following, I can't remember:

Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom Is Wrong--and What You Really Need to Know (The ParentData Series Book 1) from Emily Oyster

What to expect when you are expecting

I think it's the first one. I read many at the same time, so it's hard to remember which one had the information.