Comment by dang

What you posted is not only a personal attack but a particularly shameful one. That violates the spirit of this site, especially the first comment guideline, which is first because it is the most important: "Be kind." (https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html).

To accost somebody experiencing devastating personal loss with a trolley argument, while the person is in shock and grief and barely beginning to process their experience, is about as unkind a thing to do on the internet as I can imagine.

All: please never post like this to Hacker News.