Comment by bmicraft
2 years ago
They were gatekeeping who gets to be "an actual HNer" as only people that know who is being mourned every single time.
You seem to be responding to something like "mourning people not everyone knows is gatekeeping", but I don't see anybody saying that.
Well, you're right, and I appreciate your evenhandedness in calling me on it. You're not the one being disrespectful here.