Comment by protonbob

> I didn’t feel like I could work on them with her. So I broke things off after almost 2 years of unconditional love.

So really there were conditions as well as no commitment. The hidden condition was "If I don't feel like I can work on myself I will break it off". This is why I don't take people seriously who refuse to enter into a marriage covenant that actually means unconditional love regardless of sickness or health.