Comment by pizza

Maximum likelihood training tinges, nay, corrupts, everything it touches. That’s before you pull apart the variously-typed maximum likelihood training processes that the artifice underwent..

Your model attempts to give you a reasonably maximum likelihood output (in terms of kl-ball constrained preference distributions not too far from language), and expects you to be the maximum likelihood user (since its equilibriation is intended for the world in which you the user are just like the people who ended up in the training corpus) for which the prompt that you gave would be a maximum likelihood query (implying that there are times it’s better to ignore you-specific contingencies in your prompt to instead rather re-envision your question instead as being a noisily worded version of a more normal question).

I think there are probably some ways to still use maximum likelihood but you switch out over the ‘what’ that is being assumed as likely - eg models that attenuate dominant response strategies as needed by the user, and easy ux affordances for the user to better and more fluidly align the model with their own dispositional needs.