Comment by bogrollben
5 months ago
THIS + 1.
I would go a step further. People kid themselves all the time. Even being brutally honest, I might say I would pay for something and bail at the last step, changing my mind. It's kinda like if you write a book and ask your friend to read it and they say "sure, I will!" and they never do.
thus brutally! I really mean brutally. If you think "ahhh, i might pay for that"... that's a definite no.
It needs to be "take my money now" energy.