Comment by samiv

You made a great example here and I absolutely agree with you.

In fact I find this type of accidental / unneeded coupling is the number one cause of problems, bugs and limitations of re-use and thus development velocity in any software product. Concepts where a single way dependency is turned into a cycling dependency are really hard to evolve, maintain, test and understand.

In fact I'd go as far as to say that as a general rule of thumb if you have a situation where your class A depends on class B that depends on class A you've made a big doo doo and you should really seriously re-consider your design.

(Adjacent to this rule is that classes that exist in the same level of of the software hierarchy and are thus siblings should also not know about each other).

In fact when you structure your code so that the dependencies only go one way you end up with a neat lasagna code base and everything can easily slotted in. (Combined with this a secondary feature which is to eliminate all jumps upwards in the stack, i.e. callbacks)