Comment by priyadarshy

Her sleep is terrible since she's breastfeeding, so even when she does get some sleep, it'll be while dozing off in some unexpected and ergonomically diabolical position.

For our first baby, I had that on-edge feeling, I woke at every hint of a cry but this time I can just sleep through it and rely on my wife letting me know if I'm needed. It's not fair but it means at least one of us has the emotional resilience to deal with our toddler during the day :)