Comment by Misdicorl

Yeah I'd say kafka is not a great technology if your median and 99ths (or 999ths if volume is large enough) are wildly different which sounds like your situation. I use kafka in contexts where 99ths going awry usually aren't key dependent so I don't have the issues you see.

I tend to prefer other queueing mechanisms in those cases, although I still work hard to make 99ths and medians align as it can still cause issues (especially for monitoring)