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Comment by godelski

21 hours ago

  > I've begun to think that there might be something fundamentally groady about basing assumptions of intelligence on appearance

I find this odd to hear. Not because I think we should base our opinions on someone's appearance but because I thought it was a common belief that we shouldn't. Or rather that you would be committing a faux pas by making such a statement publicly. That people at least wanted to paint the image of themselves as upholding this virtue, despite it being clear that society operated under such biases.

Growing up (American millennial) it was routine to see public service announcements to tell people to not judge others by their appearance. It was the lesson of not just children shows but a frequent trope in popular movies. Such as James Bond entering a fancy resort looking like a homeless man, being treated as such by some staff, only for that staff member to be chastised for not treating him with the upmost respect. "Don't judge a book by its cover". "The ugly duckling".

Have things changed? Is this no longer a social taboo? To at least feign this virtue?

I think people are taught not to look down on others based on appearance, but not to avoid looking up at them.

  • This is a fair enough distinction. Though I still think there is more contextual nuances at play. Shallow Hal seems to fit both cases. To be vapid or shallow. We certainly don't just critique those for exclusively caring about other's appearances but also those that only care about their own.

    Which I can see a deterioration of the vapid criticism as social media capitalizes on this nature. Not just with people, but we do seem to care more for form over function now.

    • There's actual studies about how easy it is to get a job, or do well professionally, if you're handsome

      the human brain is hardwired to assume beauty equals -better- some how

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