← Back to context

Comment by pishpash

2 months ago

"Because I say so" is a weak ass argument, no argument at all. "Because I bought it" is passive aggressive, because you do not intend to allow even if you did not buy it.

It’s not an argument it’s just a statement of fact. “You can’t do this because I bought it” explains what (you can’t do X without Y) and why (I own Y and can therefore control the use of Y).

Now, it doesn’t explain why the decision was made in the first place to enforce a porn filter as a requirement for using the device, but again - it’s not an argument.

I agree that it doesn’t provide a complete explanation because as you mention, if the child bought their own device there would still be restrictions, but that wasn’t the case being discussed.

It’s not an argument, it’s a command.

You’re not convincing your kids that you are right. You are reminding them of the consequences if they disagree.

  • > You’re not convincing your kids that you are right. You are reminding them of the consequences if they disagree

    Very inadvisable. Raise them in view to being adults.

    • I absolutely do this, but there are times when "because I said so" is the actual answer.

      As an adult, there are plenty of situations where you are subject to the authority of others. Learning to deal with disagreement with that is also part of being an adult.

      5 replies →