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Comment by xattt

5 days ago

A long time ago, I had a chat with a nurse executive who rose up the ranks. Her advice was to stick to a position until the butterflies settle (or approximately q 5 years).

Nursing is known for lifers on single units, and personal growth doesn’t happen unless you are cognizant and strive for it.

I like this sentiment, yeah.

Honestly every job has huge up and down swings. I've been at my current place for about a decade, which seems like an outlier in this industry. Also roughly 1/3 of the people I started my career with (roughly 40 or so) are no longer even in the industry. Another 1/5 or so have transitioned to adjacent roles like project management, etc.

I make it a point to evaluate whether I want to stay where I'm at every six months and only leave if I want to leave two evaluations in a row.

I get the salary optimization done by the 2-year hoppers, but it bites you down the road as a senior engineer and onward because you've never had to live with the consequences of your engineering choices. Hanging around for longer teaches you that even the seemingly-best decision made at the time can seriously bite you years down the road.