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Comment by bluGill

3 days ago

People are friendly everywhere, but they mostly already have a full friend group and so are not looking to add more. Thus breaking in as a new comer is hard. However there are always people who need new friends it is just hard to find them.

According to data nobody has friends anymore, especially men.

  • It's tough out there

    I moved cities in 2017 and it was an incredible move for me. Better work opportunities, I met my wife, I own a house now, life is great

    But I have made zero male friends here. I have some online friends I chat with and game with, but otherwise I'm pretty isolated

    No idea how to make new male friends. Any time I meet people, they seem to always have a tight knit group already and are not really interested in spending any time building new friendships

    I am sure I'm not the only lonely dude looking for friends but I dunno