Comment by schneider89
1 day ago
When the chatbot can also make cutting remarks pointing out your insecurities, nag you about chores and responsibilities, withhold affection, make you waste your time doing things the chatbot wants to do, or have you make soulcrushing smalltalk with the chatbot's parents, and you can't leave because you had children with it, and who knows if you can even do better you are getting too old to start over anyway, then you can call it real love.
I would enjoy an LLM that had to suffer and mope over its prior poor choices. Particularly if these life lessons got baked into context somehow. Particularly Claude on one specific project where I've dubbed him Clod due to some breathtaking over-engineering that I am undoing today.
If your comment was autobiographical, though, uh... some soul-searching might be in order :/
this is a good affliction to apply to my ai love it
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