Comment by dsr_

If they hadn't thought that there was something shameful in what they were doing, they would not have reacted that way, and nobody would know who they are.

(Reference: everyone else, to a first approximation, ever highlighted by a kisscam.)

Ethical polygamists wouldn't have reacted that way. Friends with nothing to hide wouldn't have reacted that way.

If you have something to hide, being out in public and acting ashamed about it is terrible tradecraft.

I am not making a "if you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear" dismissal; this is a "don't be stupid in public" dismissal.