Comment by kayodelycaon

Fighting the instinct to judge is really important.

Both my father and I have excellent “gut feelings” to the point that “I hate being right” is the family motto.

It would be so easy to believe I’m always right in my judgement of people. But I’m extremely wrong at least 5% of the time.

If nothing else, that 5% helps me learn to read people better. If I didn’t reserve judgment, that 5% would quickly become 50%.