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Comment by squigz

2 days ago

So something can be wrong, even if the victims don't realize it's wrong until some time later?

Yes, minors are expected to be unable to understand, especially in regards to sex.

Adults are considered able to navigate sex & relationships and should take responsibility for what they do and what they don't do. There might be exceptional cases (e.g. cults) but I still think that public accusations of abusive behaviour in adult relationships, when they come with such delay, should be put under the utmost scrutiny.