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Comment by like_any_other

10 hours ago

> The girl was in a vulnerable position (far from home, first time attending, relatively poor) and coming from a different culture

I'll grant you young (although as far as I can gather that was 21 years, so 5 years older than mature and sensible enough to vote in the UK), but how do any of the others contribute to this vague "vulnerability"? How does not knowing the geography, or being at a conference the first time (a tech conference is not like a jungle expedition where experience is key...), or being of modest means, make it harder to discriminate sexual partners? This "vulnerable" only applies to someone like a spy that has to deftly navigate the city and social interactions to complete a mission, not a regular attendee.

> from a higher rank male of a female

You know this wasn't the army, right? He wasn't even her employer.

Definitely agree with you. It might be my wording due to being a foreigner.

In the distant past and in a different situation I almost abused a girl with the same 'vibe' as Jon. Definitely it's not a crime. But it opens the can of worms if the other party does not like it and it might escalate. It should have stopped for him at the stage of public berating (again the wording)