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Comment by aidenn0

1 day ago

What I have:

Work projects: typically on the order of a dozen

House projects: Probably over 20 distinct chores over the course of a week, plus currently two maintenance things that I can't do myself and have to call people repeatedly because 90% of contractors just don't show up unless you remind them to.

Kids: most things can be handled immediately (e.g. sign a form), but there are always at least half-a-dozen things in the air that can't for one reason or another.

Other: Resubmitting medical bills to insurance (can only be done during business hours, I typically open my mail after business hours). Contacting bank about something. &c.

Here's a fraction of what I'm doing today, including one from each category (except calling a contractor because my wife is doing that):

- I have to contact my bank during business hours because they sent me the wrong form (discovered while I was filling it out this weekend).

- I need to call a coworker because one project is blocked on them regarding an issue that they haven't replied to my e-mail sent Thursday afternoon.

- I need to pickup my daughter from a day-camp on the way home from work. Before dark, I need to weed part of the front yard.

- Tonight the trash (but not the recycling) goes out to the curb for a pickup tomorrow morning.

Yes, I have met people who can keep track of these things in their head. I am not one of them.

You have too many things on the go at once. Do less at work, delegate all your chores to your wife, and send the kids to boriding school. Problem solved.