Comment by bravesoul2
17 hours ago
Some of this sounds like it could benefit from check-lists (probably you are?).
20 home todos could be wrapped into a single check list that you do once a week.
The master todo says "do 1 hour home checklist".
Then in that hour you analyse what you will prioritise, drop, defer and delegate.
The idea being your mind is then free of "repair the gutter" in general life, but you know you'll visit that on Sunday at 4pm.
I do have those, especially for shopping. "Home Depot Trip" for example is a constant, and has 2-10 checklist items on it at any given time based on what I need.
The problem with a once weekly checklist of [all the house things] is how do I track when I last did a specific action so I make sure it doesn't drag on too long?
As a concrete example - I live in a steep, hilly area. So I schedule making sure that my drainage is clear about every 3 months. When I bought the house, drainage was a significant problem because it hadn't been attended to and a lot of stuff needed significant cleanouts. Do I strictly need to do something about it every 3 months? NO, but if I let it go for too long then it becomes a problem.