Comment by Dansvidania

I feel you. I cannot offer much more than that, but if you care for a friendly advice from someone who is still in the same situation and very much still working on it, setting goals became another way to procrastinate for me.

It is cliche, but system over goals has helped me.. or I guess you could see it as microgoals one does not need to think about much.

Write code for at least X hours per day, read a book for X amount of time, exercise X days a week.

It gives me a checkbox to tick and no overhead in thinking about what goals are achievable, what are desirable.. etc.