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Comment by gjsman-1000

20 hours ago

Everybody has a desired hierarchy; and you have one too. Own it; fight for it if you can; and recognize someone has to lose.

This view is the antithesis of the entire, pluralistic, classical liberal project that this country was founded on. Everybody has a hierarchy, and people should, for the most part, be allowed to choose their own hierarchy. The problem isn't that someone dislikes porn or whatever, it's that they try and force it on the rest of us.

Of course. I think that theirs is horrible. I'm not saying that having a preferred way of ordering society is bad. I am saying that oppressing LGBT people is bad.

With no recognition of what harm the desires result in? This is a fast way to all out war.

Have you considered finding middle ground and compromises? Or is war the only option?

  • "Let's meet in the middle" says the unjust man.

    You take a step towards him. He takes a step back.

    "Let's meet in the middle" says the unjust man.

    • False equivalence... the "unjust" man is actually the one constantly keeping "the middle" right where it belongs... in the middle. There has to be a give AND a take if there's going to be a middle at all.

Hierarchies are in and of themselves stupid.

If you think they exist naturally, you're only looking at one of thousands of independent variables. If you average them out, we all tend towards mediocrity.

When someone appeals to hierarchies (e.g., "there's always a bigger fish"), they're just admitting to using a painfully one-dimensional worldview.