Comment by nucleardog

I found out I had ADHD because I was catching up with a friend who had been diagnosed since I last saw them. They'd been seeing a psychologist, taking medication, and generally addressing it. They were describing their experiences, strategies they had developed prior and now recognized, and others they were working on with the psychologist for addressing challenges, etc.

I spent the entire conversation essentially going "Wait, what?! That's not normal?" and "Wait, what?! That's a coping strategy, not what everyone has to do to get through their life?".

Called my GP, told them my concern, they referred me to a psychiatrist. Psychiatrist asked me a bunch of questions and was like "Yep, you have ADHD. You have, naturally for someone your age, developed a lot of coping strategies, but those are also consistent with ADHD." and sent me back to the GP to start medication.

So, do you have ADHD? I don't know!

I'd suggest doing some reading about ADHD symptoms, about other people's experiences, and if a lot of it feels really relatable... maybe talk to a medical professional about it. If you do have it, even if you're coping successfully, there's no reason life needs to be as hard as it is.