Comment by arcbyte
18 hours ago
> the general feeling among my peers is that I must bend to the interviewer's whims
This is just conflict avoidance and naivety. After a while you start to realize that there's a whole world of people just like on HN and *we hire people too*. No matter what you do, youll end up in the place you deserve. If you try to be sneaky, you will end up working for people who are either easily fooled or see right through how to exploit you. If you let your nerd shine you'll end up with people who love your nerdiness.
> After a while you start to realize that there's a whole world of people just like on HN and we hire people too. No matter what you do, youll end up in the place you deserve.
I mean, I'm hoping for that too. But it also feels like this only applies as long as there's a balance of likeminded people who are already in the industry vs. the people looking to get a job. For someone like me, without a real network, meeting a person like the kind you mention is extremely unlikely. Even then, most of these people are looking for more qualified candidates, since there's an overabundance of juniors and seniority is a good predictor for being really passionate about their field. So, maybe I'll figure that out someday, but right now I just need a job, and what people in my cohort do is a way to try and get a job at all costs.