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Comment by dang

2 days ago

Would you please stop perpetuating flamewars and taking HN threads on generic tangents? You've been doing this a ton lately, it's not what this site is for, and the effects your posts have been having on the threads is regrettable.

Also, please stop crossing into name-calling and personal attack, as you did here. jeffwass shouldn't have referred to you as "a troll" but there's no question that your posts have been having trollish effects in the threads, and this is actually what matters (see https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45522090, https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Hello. I've taken some time to think about this. I appreciate your explanation, I care about HN, and I'm open to feedback.

> Also, please stop crossing into name-calling and personal attack, as you did here.

I see many of my comments were unkind and unnecessary. I'm sorry, and I will stop. Here are three examples in this thread of where I went wrong, in my own words:

- I was accusatory, mean, and condescending when I wrote "I wonder if you will be intellectually honest if/when I reveal errors, mistakes, oversimplifications, and so on?"

- I did some psychoanalysis (which is unwarranted), such as when I wrote "You are clearly upset and bothered and resorting to rationalization and attacks."

- I accused someone of bad faith when I wrote: "You exaggerated and trivialized. You deflected and moved the goalposts. These are signs you want to win more than discuss in good faith."

I will keep these course corrections in mind.

P.S. I know this isn't a full reply to your comment; I am still processing some parts.