Comment by pols45

Here's some good food for your brain - https://oyc.yale.edu/philosophy/phil-181/

tldr: people have been thinking about this stuff for a long long time and all their answers boil down to not trying to control everything that happens in the universe (cuz its a guaranteed path to suffering), but to find ways to live and flourish despite all the things we can not control. And there are many ways to do that.