Comment by MichaelZuo
9 hours ago
Someone having one consciously developed ulterior motive… does increases the likelihood of them having other consciously developed ulterior motives that might be hidden away?
The linkage isn’t as strong for unconsciously or subconsciously developed ulterior motives. Hence the huge gap in how people behave towards that.
Calling it "ulterior motive" is already a judgement call.
Being better at socialization is virtually demanded by society. "Not looking good" is also punished. There is nothing ulterior about anything.
The fact that a certain chunk of society demands both perfection and authenticity already makes it necessary for people to not be transparent about such things.
By definition all discussion about opinions, perceptions, etc., are judgement calls…?
No.