Comment by happytoexplain

I get it - I am not a hardcore prescriptivist. Language is defined by usage.

But you're going too far in the other direction. Like... language nihilism. It's OK to care. Language is deeply, unavoidably personal. Look at how people describe the feeling they get when they read "how __ like": "Itch". It's not only an academic opinion - it's also a piece of who we are.