Comment by ActorNightly

>Also, have you tried just modifying your route table?

The problem is I want to run VNC on my home computer to the server on my work Mac so I can just access everything from one screen and m+b combo without having to use a USB switch and a second monitor. With VPN it basically just does not allow any inbound connections.

So I run a localhost tunnel its a generic ethernet listener that basically takes data and initiates a connection to localhost from localost and proxies the data. On my desktop side, its the same thing just in reverse.