Comment by asdff
3 days ago
My advice would be to keep up with a schedule that still keeps you pretty busy and ideally waking up early at regular hours. Once you hit actual rock bottom burn out, you know sleeping in until noon and scrolling message boards for three hours before you realized you haven't eaten yet all day and the sun is already setting, it feels almost impossible to turn the switch back on when you need to. Even something like folding your clothes starts to feel like a monumental task pretty fast.
Relating to my other comment under your post, I feel like I am becoming this. I urgently need to stop it and am looking for books on this topics.
I felt similarly before, my take is to gradually add social structure to life. direction can funnel and catalyse energy.
e.g. pottery, crossfit, book club. for me, it was bjj, a world of warcraft group, and a "beer club".
regularly watching and chatting in a small twitch stream could be a start, but beware its parasocial nature
solo activities add structure but social bonds reinforce discipline and motivation. "someone will notice my absence".
In my opinion, what you need is a person (or three), not a book :)
Someone who relies on you, whatever the context, is some of the greatest motivation out there.
Can you elaborate? Do you mean getting kids? I just got out of a relationship that felt too close for me...
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Not sure if you're single, but go on some dates. Getting excited about another human being can be a huge boost. You don't need to replace work with other intellectualism (though you certainly can!)
Thank you.