← Back to context

Comment by ErroneousBosh

5 days ago

> These kids got good grades but never went on a date, couldn't drive or go anywhere by themselves.

One of my friends in high school was like that - always studying, always doing extra classes. Straight As even without it, good grades, six highers one year and another two and four CSYS by the time he left. Then off to Uni where he got a first with distinction in Business Management. He never did anything but study, although he did play football a bit.

In the intervening 30-odd years he's mostly worked as a deputy manager in a supermarket in a small town maybe an hour's drive from the slightly smaller town I live in. He's never done anything else. Moved a couple of hundred miles from where we went to school, got a job, worked his way up to assistant manager.

I see him sometimes in passing when I'm working up that way.

We must imagine Stephen happy.