Comment by 8organicbits
5 days ago
As a parent of young children I've found that I need my phone on any time my children are not with me. Calls from school or day care don't always come from the same number, so I answer every call when my kids are in the care of others (but none otherwise).
Then practice keeping your phone in your pocket for increasingly long periods of time. You may need to build up to this and to develop some level of control.
Why? What happens if you don’t have it, just as parents didn’t have them for centuries?
Child care now requires parents to be readily available, especially to pick up children who are sick. A century ago, child care providers were expected to care for sick children until the parent arrived. Failure to be responsive would be a violation of the child care agreement.
Is this really true? There are millions of parents who are unreachable while working. A surgeon isn’t going to be able to leave in the middle of surgery to pick up their kid from child care.
My kid got sick at daycare one time when I was over an hour away. They just had to stay there while I worked my way back.
It happens, and it is handled normally.
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