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Comment by FireBeyond

4 days ago

It's not. I was a "90 day fiance" immigrant (the concept, not the show).

We had a sincere relationship, but we both agreed that our marriage, while genuine, was earlier than it would have otherwise been other than logistics of an trans-Pacific romance.

We stayed together 5 years, then separated/divorced, amicably. In the midst of all that I missed a USCIS filing date.

I was out of status briefly, but also in a situation where I was ostensibly entitled to stay (USCIS would have to demonstrate a belief that the marriage was under false pretences), so I hired an immigration attorney to straighten things out (which basically involved filing paperwork that I needed to file, and a letter from her and one from me explaining why I missed it.

She did make the comment to me during all that though that I had no cause for concern above and beyond that, quote:

"I hate that I can say it, but the reality is you're both 'the right color' and a high-earning male. USCIS has you so far down the list of their priorities for reconciliation you could stay here decades before them calling you to account".

Most K1 applications are approved, most are female, most are not white. I doubt your case would have been any different had you not been a "'the right color' and a high-earning male".