Comment by jmspring

All five of the 4 legged a-holes I have here, plus the one my wife has with her (we split / travel between houses) are completely spoiled. He's my primary - my wife brought a couple of cats to the relationship while I had my old ginger. During covid my ginger passed and the other cats were sorta hers - the two sisters she adopted from a homeless person, the boy who hitched a ride on her gas tank (special, but great cat), and then the cat she adopted form a homeless woman after covid.

My ginger passed and I adopted a cat who was named "Tank" because he was a little box of a pre 4week cat. Got him at 5-6 weeks, his name is Tiny Jerk because even at a young age - tooth brush, toilet paper, socks got carried off.

It was a bond. So while primary and secondary are not the best terms "my cat" and the others isn't either.

He is a great cat, he's also dealing with moving from the place he was raised to a new home (mover ~1yr ago, but moved him up - and the rest - 6mo ago). He gets all the attention he demands, but it's hard with the typing.