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Comment by next_xibalba

9 hours ago

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Age verification on mainstream porn sites does absolutely zilch against teenagers accessing porn. There are countless other ways of obtaining porn. Even DDG with the safety off will provide plenty of it.

>it might prevent that

On the global internet... good luck with that.

Oh, they'll ban us from looking at other countries net's soon enough for our safety.

>and this seems like it might prevent that

sorry but we're on the internet. You can type the literal words 'hardcore pornography' into any search engine of your choice and find about fifteen million bootleg porn sites hosted on some micro-nation that don't care about your age verification.

In fact ironically, this will almost certainly drive people to websites that host anything.

What evidence led you to believe this, when controlling for heritability?

  • How about that 38% of young women in the UK have experienced asphyxiation; combined with studies showing there is zero safe threshold without brain damage markers in the blood?

    https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c62zwy0nex0o

    https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/nov/18/sexually-act...

    https://wecantconsenttothis.uk/blog/2020/12/21/the-horrifyin...

    https://www.nytimes.com/2024/04/12/opinion/choking-teen-sex-...

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/consciously-creating...

    https://www.itleftnomarks.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/...

    Before the widespread adoption of pornography, this rate was near 0%. Now we have literally a significant minority of women with permanent brain damage, induced from widespread pornography, unknown harms long-term, and studies already suggesting increased risk of random stroke decades afterwards.

    • > combined with studies showing there is zero safe threshold without brain damage markers in the blood?

      Are you saying that there's zero safe threshold of choking, or for viewing porn?

      (To be clear, choking someone without consent is assault and unacceptable, whether a blood test shows damage or not.)

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    • > Before the widespread adoption of pornography, this rate was near 0%

      Bullshit. Men and women have been dying of autoerotic asphyxiation long before the internet. And we only hear about the ones that fuck up badly enough to make the news.

      I'm puzzled by this phenomenon myself, but there is apparently a significant minority of women who enjoy getting choked in bed:

      https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-025-01247-9

      This doesn't excuse people who choke without consent, but there's something going on here waaaay more complex than "see it in porn, do it". Humans are weird.

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    • > Before the widespread adoption of pornography, this rate was near 0%.

      Big giant citation needed on that one. How would it ever have been near 0%?

      First, I’d like to point out that we don’t make other media illegal or age gated with privacy-compromising tactics because it depicts harmful things. There’s no age verification gate for watching movies and TV that depict murder and other serious crimes. You can watch Gaston drink beer and fall to his death and the Beast bleed in a kids movie rated G.

      Watching NFL football, boxing, and UFC fighting isn’t illegal even those sports conclusively cause brain damage.

      Pornography is singled out because it’s taboo and for no other reason. People won’t politically defend it because nobody can publicly admit that they like watching it, even though most people consume it.

      Over 90% of men and over 60% of women in the last month. [1]

      Second, what I see missing from your links is really solid studied link to an increase in choking injuries directly caused by changes in pornography trends and viewership. Were these kinks just underreported in the past? Heck, I read 4 of your linked articles and none of them actually compared the rate of choking injury over time, they just sort of pointed it out as something that exists and jumped to blaming pornography.

      I am perfectly willing to accept your hypothesis but I don’t think we’ve been anywhere near scientific enough about evaluating it, and even if that was the case, we don’t really treat pornography the same as other media just like I mentioned.

      We need a lot more information. Personally, I think there’s nothing wrong with sexual pleasure and believe it’s stigmatized way too much. I also believe that normalizing sexual pleasure helps people talk about consent and avoids issues like doing a sexual act when you don’t enjoy it.

      [1] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30358432/