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Comment by dapperdrake

20 hours ago

Reflecting peoples feelings is sometimes called "showing sympathy."

Sympathy means expressing pity or sorrow at someone's plight. Reflecting feelings is more like a form of empathy. It's clarifying and/or paraphrasing the feelings so that the other person feels like they're heard and taken seriously. They're orthogonal behaviours - you can do one or the other or both.