Comment by johnnyanmac
1 month ago
Okay. I'm glad you're privileged enough to where you can choose your customers. Customers that aren't abusive or otherwise out of their league thinking they know everything just because they have money.
Otherwise, you never feeelanced on the cheap.
Calling me "privileged" or "lucky" feels like a cheap attack on my competence.
I am certain that I went through the same problems you did in the past, maybe I just have a different way of dealing with them, or maybe I had even worse problems than you did but I have a different frame of comparison. We never stopped to compared notes.
All I'm saying is: for me dealing with business owners, end-users, CEOs and CTOs was always way easier than dealing with proxies. That's all.
>I am certain that I went through the same problems you did in the past,
And I'm certain you haven't if you really, never wanted a layer of separation between certain clients over behavioral issues that got in the way of the actual work. And I'm still male, so I'm sure I still have it better than certain other experiences I only heard third hand in my industry.
I don't see it as a cheap attack. Any teacher would love to be in a classroom exclusively made up of motivated honors students so they can focus on teaching and nurturing. Instead, most teachers tend to become parental proxies without the authority to actually discipline children. So they see a chair fly and at best they need to hope a principal handles it. But sometimes the kid is back in class the next day.
Its envy more than anything else.
Once again you are making assumptions about my experience. Can you please stop?
> if you really, never wanted a layer of separation between certain clients over behavioral issues that got in the way of the actual work
Who says I haven’t?
My entire complaint is that the layer of separation is often more difficult than customers, and doesn’t have the same incentives for behaving.
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