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Comment by Ancalagon

10 hours ago

Just wondering, have you been unemployed for 6+ mos before?

Not really, no. I was underemployed for 6+ months at the start of my career, but it's easier to take whatever is available at that point. I did some data entry and then first tier ops desk restart the server when the light turns red stuff, before I got a "real job". Doing that mid career and keeping a good attitude would be difficult.

But I would think 5 months paid time before you have to go on state unemployment is significantly better than the WARN act minimum of 60 days of notice or pay or the alternative of a campaign to raise attrition. Looks like recent google/meta layoffs are 4 months, so it's 25% better than that. I always thought I wanted to get a package, but I recognize that I would probably not have been happy if it happened.

Everyone is an atheist until the plane starts crashing.

  • Don’t knock me for deciding “deathbed repentance” is a decent plan.

    /s

    Maybe it’s just my background, but I’m starting to feel that a lot of people in the tech industry have never learned empathy.

    • > I’m starting to feel that a lot of people in the tech industry have never learned empathy

      I see you haven't visited the absolute delight that is team blind or you would have figured this out already.

Being let go from a job sucks.

So does being dumped from a relationship. You might not be able to find another relationship in 6+ months. But I don't think people would seriously propose that people should therefore not be able to leave a relationship.

  • great analogy dude. Totally relevant.

    • Thanks!

      A lot of people would focus on the many obvious differences, and use those to deflect attention from the important similarity I was highlighting: That they are both things that ought to exist only so long as both parties want them to.

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