Comment by timcobb
11 hours ago
I'm not op but I don't think op meant to shame, I understand the construction "tell me you're... without telling me" as a way to highlight that something is unexpected to people who haven't done something, that is that something is particularly unintuitive without some special experience.
he did a reddit (cringe) and now must be punished for it (the text becomes an absolutely fucking unreadable shade of light grey)