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Comment by epistasis

11 hours ago

I know a lot of people that don't get through their email every week, for example. Even saying no takes too much time, with the volume of communication required by daily work.

Very few people email me except for endless newsletters that I accidentally signed up for. I try to un sub to a few every day but it seems never ending.

In the event that you actually do end up emailing me, it's contingent on me actually checking my personal email, which I never do when I'm not working, and only sometimes do during work hours.

If it's you asking me a favor that I'm not in the mental space for, I'll mark the message unread as a reminder to get to it later.

Maybe I just have weird email habits, but I can get away with this because email is not a heavy part of my job.

That being said, one guy was pitching me on something several times a month for several months. I just recently responded to him and apologized because of x y z. He said don't worry and we had a fruitful conversation later.

So, follow through is important!

Their repeat emailers might win eventually!

Passing on some life advice to anyone who’d benefit, people are busy. Maybe they didn’t respond because you’re annoying?… no no, feel it out and text again a while later. Give them another shot, get to the top of their inbox or messages again.

After someone told me that I realized it’s true!